Help & FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

Without seeing someone as a client in a therapeutic setting, it would not be ethical for me to comment on individual problems, symptoms, therapeutic issues, medications, etc. You might want to schedule an appointment with a therapist to discuss your concerns. You can always schedule an appointment for a Regression Healing session with me. The spiritual word and your higher self has always the answers to your questions.

Yes, I do especially during my diving tours around the world. It is part of the dive tour/program to incorporate spiritual teachings, regression healing and diving. I also lead the group through meditations and group regressions. Often the energy of the group working together allows extremely profound and powerful experiences to be evoked. I feel a massive connection between my spirituality and the sea/water. This is why I offer this unique combination.

I am offering group regression workshops on demand in Bonaire and Curacao. Just mail me.

It is not always necessary to see a therapist in order to discover one’s past lives.  Meditation on your own or by using audiotapes or CDs can help you to have your own experiences. Chris Turners audio books contain relaxation and regression guidance. These free audio books can be found under

More detailed audio books can be found under

Of course, working with a therapist, you can be directed more specifically to a time and place.

I suggest that you learn and practice meditation regularly.  This has helped me a great deal, and now I meditate daily.  After a while, the answers to your questions will come to you, but you must be persistent and patient and not get discouraged.  This is a practice for a lifetime.

My advice is going into meditation or a script or tape/CD to relax and let happen what happens in a nonjudgmental way.  Just experience and let your superconscious wisdom come.  Afterwards you can analyze the experience.

I suggest that you keep practicing with Chris Turner Audio books and remember that the other senses count. The experience doesn’t have to be visual.  Some people relate knowing, feeling, a kinesthetic experience, etc.

With Regression Healing most to all people are able to be hypnotized easily and deeply the first time they try hypnosis. However, some need more experience, practice and visualization. Having said this – it is part of their life experience and there is nothing to be worried about.

Even people with a moderate response to hypnosis can benefit greatly by experiencing the energies. This counts for every- and anybody.

Just like in traditional psychotherapy, when traumas are remembered, symptoms are alleviated. The remembering of “just short moments of previous lives” is often enough to give the person insight into his or her present life and to open that person’s mind to the possibility of soul survival, reincarnation, etc. It can produce a change regarding serious therapeutic issues, but in those cases, it is more common to explore the memory in more depth in order to effect change.

It is not always necessary to discover our past lives in order to live better lives in the present. Not all of our problems have their source in the past. A lot of ailments and problems are coming from baby and childhood in the present life. If they are conscious about it many people have enough understanding about themselves to work on this by themselves by mirroring their experience without delving in the past too much so that they can live this life in a healthy fulfilling, way.

Yes, but I do this only when the spiritual world is guiding me there. If I have the feeling that this in alignment with God’s will.

Most of all of us are reincarnating because we have many lessons to learn, lessons about love, compassion, charity, nonviolence, inner peace, patience, etc. It would be hard to learn them all in only one life. Also, some people come back voluntarily to help others.

On a more profound level we come back because of karmic reasons but this is subject of a whole workshop or lecture.

Not all souls are coming back but most earth souls do. If your learning is not finished, you find yourself being born into another lifetime. The soul and your higher self are choosing the life circumstances and how to evolve and grow. There might be limits of the choices but you have always your free will to do so or not. You have to understand as a spiritual being (without having the ego involved in the spirituals world before you come to earth) that the choice you make is very different as if the ego would have been involved. How many times you heard the sentence “I did not choose my parents” or “Nobody would choose this life circumstances”.

Actually, this is simply what you really did! It is exactly what your soul and higher self has chosen to experience. Having said that, that does not mean we have to live with these circumstances. It means that we have to grow and evolve out of it – to learn the lesson and to thrive. We are not here to suffer! The creator, the spiritual world, spiritual teachers (Jesus, Buddha, the ascended masters and others) and to a lesser extend therapists/doctors – whatever they might do and which area they work – are here to support these souls on their path. You only need to ask for help and don’t feel ashamed of it, never. You are not alone!  

Highly evolved souls however do not have to come back but often choose to reincarnate to help as teachers.

That depends. Normally reincarnation is not always and not usually immediate. The in-between state may last a long time. Also, our soul is far greater than our physical body. It is not limited by our constructs of space and time.

Souls can reincarnate and often do, but their spirit also remains “available” in the spiritual world. Our soul is far greater than our physical body; it’s not limited by our constructs of space and time. We are multidimensional.

Yes, a soul can split and have more than one experience at the same time, even in other dimensions in order to increase its learning opportunities. In a lot of circumstances, you integrate also more and more soul parts into your beingness. This can be as you grow and you are ready to take the next step or you lost them for various reasons and they need to get integrated back again. Shamans are talking in this case of soul retrieval.

This is an interesting one and not one you can answer in a frequent ask question in every detail:  

An answer I can give is that earth is not the only place where souls reside. There are many dimensions, many different levels of consciousness where souls are.  Why should we feel that we’re the only place? There is no limit to energy – nor in our full evolved being. The earth is one school of many schools. However, the deeper understanding of this question lies somewhere else.

Thinking of time as linear is really a construct of our three-dimensional world.  It’s easier for most people to think of time in a linear flow from past to present to future, but at some level time probably exist in very different way.  All lives might be occurring simultaneously even.

Yes and No but they have all consciousness. A lot animals have souls, and they may have their own lessons to learn. The souls may not be as highly individualized as those of humans, perhaps their family or group soul mingles more. But this distinction is not an important one.

Frequently animals or pets who have died greet us on the other side.  Animals are here to teach us many lessons. One of the lessons is unconditional love. Animals will sacrifice themselves for their owners oftentimes. People tend not to do that for each other.

Often people want to know if their pets will return to them.  This happens actually. Even sometime in one human lifetime.

Many people have also asked if animals reincarnate as other species of animals, and yes, they do, there is a kind of progression through many different stages.  They can change their species and kingdom if they choose to, for that may offer them a new avenue for learning and perspective. Having said that, this applies also to humans. We can also explore animal consciousness or plant consciousness, or even the consciousness of the clouds or elements. However, in majority we have done this already on our path to a higher consciousness. This is the way of evolution.

Why should we ever put any limits on our awareness or our soul? Energy is energy. Consciousness is consciousness and all sentient beings have an existence and have a soul and can therefore reincarnate.

Yes, we do have a twin soulmate but twin flames are mostly not in body at the same time. This does not mean other relationships are not very important for learning especially when you meet a soulmate (not twin soulmate).

Having a soulmate connection does not mean that one is obligated to spend a lifetime together. One has many soulmates in one’s lifetime. Often when the lessons to be learned in the relationship are completed, the relationship has a natural ending and the two souls move on. Also, there are many types of love and many types of soul relationships. Romantic love is only one of these types.

We have forgotten our true natures and it is our task to reawaken and remember.  When you do understand the importance of this school, we call earth and when you are truly spiritual, you do not cut classes early.

We have tasks to do and much to learn. The healthier the body, the easier it is and the more time and energy there are to do what we came here to do. Your actions regarding your body can shorten your life and can thus limit your spiritual growth. Also, it’s one of our lessons to respect our bodies.

Destiny and choice both exist and keep interacting with each other. As you make a choice it changes the future. Maybe the possibilities and probabilities change to an extent as you do that. We learn because of free choice, but we also have destiny. I would call it the soul path you go.

I think that there are at least two lines of evolution. The evolution of the soul is different from the evolution of the physical body. At which exact time souls entered bodies for the first time I have an idea but I do not know. But it is important to remember that these evolutionary lines are separate and distinct.

Often dreams contain fragments of past life memories. Also, frequently the material elicited or brought up through past life regressions contains metaphors and symbols which can trigger dream experiences.  I personally think that dreams are helping you to understand what is going on in your actual life and very often is giving you a solution to a problem when you are able to interpret the dream correctly. Past life memories are written in your personal akashic records. Dreams can access the akashic records but not necessarily. Dreams are showing or describing a situation and you need to figure out what it means and yes sometimes the dream is picking past life memories to show that something from a past life is not solved yet.

I highly recommend the available literature on dreams from Edgar Casey and C.G. Jung.

No. At this point in time I think the help I can give with my service is more important. I learned it from Chris Turner and I can highly recommend him!

There is book out there which I can recommend. Please read Through Time Into Healing from Brian L. Weiss as this is a very clinical book. Also, the scripts from Christ Turner are very helpful. This was the first step on my way to learn it.

  • Reincarnation: The Missing Link in Christianity by Elizabeth Clare Prophet – published by Summit University Press, March 1997
  • Reincarnation : A New Horizon in Science, Religion, and Society by Sylvia Cranston, Carey Williams – Published by Theosophical Univ. Press, December 1993
  • Reincarnation in Christianity by Geddes MacGregor – published by Theosophical Publishing House, April 1989

If the psychic is trained in healing techniques or has healing capabilities then yes. Otherwise the information from a psychic is interesting, informative and most times helpful, especially if he is able to find the root cause of the problem. However, to go one step further and removing symptoms is beyond a psychic. All depends on the capabilities of the psychic.